Oh boy, I hate the holidays.
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Six years ago, my family and I suffered a tremendous loss. My niece was tragically taken away from us. Her death has left a void in our lives. As with me, I know how difficult celebrating the holidays can be when you are mourning the loss of your loved one. I want to share a few ways that you can ease some of your sorrow, and enjoy your holiday season. Do you get down around the holidays? Well, don't. It's time to reinvent your experience, switch it up a bit, and turn that frown into a great big smile. Do something fun. 1. Take a vacation. Escape the norm. Go grasp some sun and remove yourself from that depressing environment. 2. Make the holidays about your loved one. Dedicate the day to them, implement a program, fill the day with memories of your loved one. Make their favorite foods. Incorporate their favorite sayings, create a mini memorial, but a happy one. 3. Acknowledge how you feel and try extra hard to be happy. Decorate the house with brightness and